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Have you signed the petition to protect children from sexual abuse?  Click here to sign now.

There are too many facts, statistics, and evidence-based research figures on the unforgiving table of data for child sexual abuse for any parent to remember them all. So don’t. You don’t need to know that nearly a quarter of our children will be sexually abused before reaching his or her eighteenth birthday. There will be no quiz on what age group of children is the most or least likely to fall victim to a predator. No one is going to hold it against you if you can’t quote the latest research indicating that children know their abuser in 90% of abuse cases. As a parent, you don’t have to commit every fact and every statistic to your memory bank. Just remember this – children who possess the language and the permission to talk about sexual abuse are the safest children. Then ask yourself, “Do my kids have both?”

Permission to talk about abuse means exactly that- permission. Create an open dialogue with your children about what’s appropriate and inappropriate, and the importance of trusting one’s instincts. Talking about sexual abuse is not a one-time event; it is an open, ongoing discussion that you and your children feel comfortable with. Give your children the permission they need to talk to you by talking freely and unashamedly about protecting their bodies. Simple enough, right?

Onto the second tool is this combo – language. Children need to know the proper terms for body parts. Perpetrators often use “silly” names for private parts as part of the grooming process. Make sure your child knows the difference between a secret (something to be hidden) and a surprise (something to be revealed). Tell your child it is okay to say “no” if someone makes them uncomfortable in any way.

So forget all the numbers. Never mind with the most recent data. Give your littles the tools they need to be safe – language and permission. It really is that simple.

1 in 5 New York Kids Are Sexually Abused. Help Prevent That

The CDC reports that 1 in 5 children are sexually abused.

9 out of 10 of the perpetrators are never brought to justice and never appear on sex offender registries.

They are protected by New York State laws.

Sign this petition and change that. Protect NY Kids.

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Laura Fogarty

Laura Fogarty

Editor, Ask Lala

Laura Fogarty writes “Ask Lala” for the Stop Abuse Campaign. She is a mother, an advocate, and the author of two children’s abuse prevention books: I’M THE BOSS OF ME! and WE ARE JUST ALIKE!

Laura has an ACE score of 7.

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